I have been doing some serious avoidance. Currently on vacation, I decided I would take this time to really try to relax but also to delve into myself. I have done some relaxing, enjoyed myself, spent time with wonderful people, but I am displeased with how much I am avoiding “The Hard Stuff.” “The Hard Stuff” are the things you know you need to be doing because they center you but you feel you are better off ignoring because you don’t have to deal with discomfort if you do..