Today I went back to work after being on bereavement leave for two weeks. It took me months to go on bereavement leave, for a host of reasons I won’t get into. But I was finally able to take two full weeks off to myself. I feel weird calling it a vacation because surely, it wasn’t this purely fun time off of work as I planned on sitting in my discomfort and grief. I was messaging a friend yesterday and she asked me, “so what did you learn.” And the question, while simple, hit